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    So I read a Washington post recently, about a tweet made by activist and former Pennsylvania Democratic congressional candidate Alexandra Hunt setting off an internet firestorm. She stated that young men aren’t having sex and that we should be moving toward a right to sex. And here’s what I find interesting. What I do find interesting is how the framing always talks about men and sex alone but it never talks about women amongst a plethora of other factors to consider when it comes to the topic of sex. Firstly, very seldom in society do we talk about how the expectation of sex was often set by a society controlled by men, and women were just subject to it, and as that has changed you would hope that by now the dynamics would have changed as well. Some quarters still argue that men aren't having the sex that they want to have or ought to have, and I go like “how much sex” are men supposed to have in the first place? Secondly, it begs the reasoning; are only men entitled to s...

The majority of us are generally aware that playing games in relationships are detrimental and that all decent people are against it. A common phrase used by enthusiasts at the start of love tales all across the globe is "I don't play games." It can be more complicated to determine what playing games clearly entails and how to completely ignore its characteristics. We all too often link this "so-called sport" with its most blatant forms during the courting stage, such as when someone hides their desire behind a façade of indifference or loses interest as soon as love is reciprocated.  Regardless there are further game types that are much more  subtle, undetectable, and potentially harmful over time. For example w hen we choose to hide hurt, when we rather not speak about something uncomfortable, vulnerable, or hurtful in our minds, etc. We play games when our spouse says or does something that offends us when we choose not to express it. Instead, we remain silen...

couple cuddling from pixabay.com SCARED OF BOREDOM: Another reason why women like to date the bad boy is that they are not boring. Nobody likes being bored, it doesn’t matter if you’re a man or woman boredom is just an unpleasant thing to feel. Now as a man, having a boring partner doesn’t seem to be such a big deal because we can create our own excitement. We’d go out there and go invent something, we’ll start a band, start a business, do menial jobs, watch football matches as well as play football matches, play video games, etc. Whatever it is, you’re not going to stop a man from getting his own fix of adrenaline. While all those things come with a certain amount of drama and excitement we are still ultimately in control and like that. We don’t really want our home lives or partner to be a source of drama. No guy wants to date a drama queen, because we’re not in control of that and that’s stressful. If you look at all the weird activities that humans engage in, most of the real...

Have you ever heard a woman say "I just want a nice guy" or "I just want someone who respects me and who treats me very well" ?? I BET YOU HAVE! Have you also seen this same woman completely ignore this nice guy in her life? To put him in the friend zone?? (sound familiar) All the while she's having crazy wild uninhibited sex with the guy who's the exact opposite of what she says that she wants. Even while she is saying she wants the nice, kind, and respectful guy, she's giving all of her sexual attention to the bad guy (jerk) who doesn't respect her. To all the women out there reading this, let me tell you;  There's nothing that's going to break a Man's spirit more quickly than him watching the girl whom he loves and fancies, having sex with some terrible guy who doesn't love and respect her. All the while he's completely overlooked as a sexual prospect. But this is not a blog where we sit around playin...

You've probably noticed that men are much more likely to be risk-takers when it comes to dating. Men are going to consider dating from a large pool of women. They are going to be the ones to show courage to approach women and ask for their phone numbers. women are a lot more risk-averse. They are only going to accept dates from a small pool of men. They are going to say no more often than they say yes and they are never going to be the ones to approach a man and initiate that romantic interaction. When it comes to dating and relationships, men and women are completely different. Men are more adventurous and women are more reserved. Of cos, there are going to be expectations, this isn't black or white. But, on the whole, you've probably noticed in your own life that men are inclined to be risk-takers and women are more risk-averse. The men in a relationship want to basically go exploring. He wants to get out into the world. Whereas the woman wants to stay in a hotel, or...

Superstitious beliefs are becoming a thing these days. I look to my left, right, up, and down, it's all the same. Is it just me, or does anyone feel hungry each time those kinda talk come up?  Lol. Take, for instance, Kelechi my neighbor who strongly believes in the mystery of superstition. She is ready to  argue with the gods of Olympus to prove her point on such a topic. In the staff room, during the break period, she once said that there was this animal in their village that has the power to fish out the  perpetrator of a crime.. (lol) Well, I respect her beliefs an...