5 REASONS WHY WOMEN ARE MORE LIKELY TO CHOOSE THE BAD GUY(jerk) OVER MR. NICE GUY

Have you ever heard a woman say

"I just want a nice guy" or

"I just want someone who respects me and who treats me very well" ??

I BET YOU HAVE!

Have you also seen this same woman completely ignore this nice guy in her life? To put him in the friend zone?? (sound familiar)

All the while she's having crazy wild uninhibited sex with the guy who's the exact opposite of what she says that she wants. Even while she is saying she wants the nice, kind, and respectful guy, she's giving all of her sexual attention to the bad guy (jerk) who doesn't respect her.

To all the women out there reading this, let me tell you; 

There's nothing that's going to break a Man's spirit more quickly than him watching the girl whom he loves and fancies, having sex with some terrible guy who doesn't love and respect her. All the while he's completely overlooked as a sexual prospect.

But this is not a blog where we sit around playing the victim, feeling sorry for ourselves. WHAT'S THE POINT?

This is a blog where we educate ourselves and we try to understand things better so that we can use that information to empower ourselves. 

And so, I bring you 5 reasons why girls are going to sexually choose the bad boy (jerk) over the nice guy.

1. EMOTIONS:

The first reason why women like bad boys (jerks) is; They appeal to their emotions. 

DID YOU KNOW?

"Most women think that the bad boys are not easy to read, which they like and find very exciting"

As a man, it can be incomprehensible to understand why a woman would like a man who is difficult to understand, who is hard to read. Because we don't think that way. We lose patience with a woman like that.

We think;-- "just be upfront and tell me how you feel. If you like me tell me, if you don't also tell me"

Men are primarily logical whereas women are primarily emotional. But of cos we're all a mix of both emotion and logic,its not like we're exclusively guided by one logic. 

"And personally, I think a lot of men are more emotional than they care to admit"

But my larger  point is that for women, emotions play a big role in their decision making. 

For a woman, how she is feeling and what her emotions are plays a huge part in how she understands the world around her, and so this is the important part.

A man who doesn't make a woman feel something is basically invisible to her.

When women are scanning over the men in her environment, its like they are looking for the one who is going to generate the strongest emotional response -- that's who they pay attention to, and bizzarely it doesn't seem to matter whether those emotions are positive or negative.

It might sound strange that women consider men which generate negative emotions inside them to be sexual  prospect, but the ability to make a woman feel is powerful because she is noticing you.

If you generate emotions inside her then you're not invisible. The most powerful way to make a woman notice you is to spike her emotions back and forth. Make her feel negative emotions and then jack knife it and make her feel positive emotions. So one minute you might be completely ignoring her, you've got your back turned and its like she doesn't exist and the next minute she's the central of  your world. You're giving her compliments and praise and she's suddenly loving the validation. Then you change it up again, you go back to ignoring her and then she's feeling lost and insecure. You've suddenly taken away the thing that she was enjoying so much and then you give it back to her, back and forth, back and forth.

Suddenly !!!! WOW, she's like 

"Who is this guy who's making me feel so much" ?

These violent swirls of emotion inevitably leans towards attraction and this is very difficult for men to understand because, primarily we don't really like emotions. They are kind of annoying, they get in the way of our nice pure clean logic. 

But understand, women are not like us. Women like it!!!

If you're the guy who can make her feel, then you're doing her a favour because you're giving her what she wants. And what she really wants is to get in touch with her emotions. That's when she feels her authentic self. So being with a bad boy (jerk) might have a lot of challenges, a lot of drama, and a lot of heartaches, but it comes with a lot of emotions and women love that.

PS: I'll be dropping the reasons every fourth night. 

One down, four to go.

PSS: don't forget to drop your comments and opinions below. The reasons are inexhaustible .